We have positive memories from past sexual experiences, which often inform our sexual futureįor example, if you’ve had great sex with a guy with a particular build, body scent, haircut, uniform or clothing style, it can be surprising how often we will make a bee-line for that ‘type’ of man again.Sex Worker Advocacy and Resistance Movement (SWARM)įeeling horny, and wanting and needing sex, varies from person to person, but several factors are usually in play: Top and bottom, active and passive, pitcher and catcher Popular topics and ask us anything (kinda)